Willow Smith says she and Jaden Smith felt 'shunned' by the Black community for being 'too different'

Phillip Faraone/Getty Images for Environmental Media AssociationWillow and Jaden Smith in 2017.

Willow Smith spoke candidly about feeling like an outcast during a new episode of her online TV show.

“Specifically with the African American community, I kind of felt like me and Jaden were shunned a little bit, like, ‘We’re not gonna take pride in them because they’re too different,'” the 19-year-old singer said of her and her brother during the latest episode of “Red Table Talk” on Facebook Watch, released Tuesday.

“Even some of our family members, I would feel they thought, ‘You’re too different,'” she added.

During the new episode of “RTT,” Willow sat down with her cohosts — her mother, Jada Pinkett Smith, and grandmother Adrienne Banfield Norris — to discuss mum-shaming.

Willow Smith’s comments about feeling judged by the Black community came after Pinkett Smith said that the first time she got “hardcore” mum-shamed was when her daughter shaved her head at 11 years old. Willow Smith later said she underwent the drastic transformation as an act of rebellion after the success of her 2010 song “Whip My Hair.” She also went on to dye her hair green and later pink.

Will smith jada willow jaden march 2012Gilbert Carrasquillo/Getty ImagesWill Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith, Willow Smith, and Jaden Smith in March 2012.

Pinkett Smith said during the discussion that the mum-shaming didn’t end there. She also felt backlash from the public as Jaden Smith got older. Specifically, the “Girls Trip” star recalled the negative attention the family received when her son wore a skirt for Louis Vuitton’s 2016 womenswear campaign.

“When he was wearing a skirt, then he isn’t what people consider your ‘typical Black man,'” Pinkett Smith said.

Jaden has continued to challenge fashion norms over the years by wearing heeled shoes to the 2017 Met Gala, donning a Batman suit to Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s 2014 wedding, and sporting the outfit again at prom in 2015. And in 2016, the actor launched a gender-neutral clothing line called MSFTSrep.

Speaking with Variety, Jaden Smith said the collection was made for “the girl that wants to be a tomboy or the boy that wants to wear a skirt, and people try to condemn.”

Jaden smith willow smith 2016 met galaKarwai Tang/WireImageJaden and Willow Smith at the 2016 Met Gala.

Two years later, he commented again on his fashion sense by tweeting: “If I wanna wear a dress, then I will, and that will set the new wave…”

Pinkett Smith said on “RTT” that people within the Black community “create stereotypes around ourselves,” which contributed to the shaming she said she got for her parenting.

“It’s something that we as a community really have to learn how to let go of,” the actress said. “I know that people felt like: ‘It’s dangerous. You cannot afford to raise your children this way because it’s dangerous. You know what it’s like to be a Black or brown person in this world. You are doing your kids a disservice.'”

Pinkett Smith continued: “I understood where that fear came from, but I also understood from having been on the streets and having had been not your ‘conventional Black girl’ in the streets of Baltimore, I knew that self-confidence is what helped me survive.”

Watch the full “Red Table Talk” episode below.


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