“Men think about sex every seven seconds”Nope. More like an average of every 158 seconds.
“Nice guys finish last”
It depends. Over the long run, being a nice guy can lead to happiness, success and good relationships. On the other hand, they aren’t as likely to end up in prestigious positions or to be chosen as leaders when times are tough. Rude people have higher credit scores and jerks make more money. And it can be hell on your love life: young women and women who most enjoy sex prefer bad boys.
“The light that burns twice as bright burns half as long”
“Early to bed, early to rise, makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise”
“When you smile the whole world smiles with you”
Smiling makes others more likely to smile.
“Money can’t buy happiness”
As a general rule, money does not increase happiness much after our basic needs are met. However, money can increase happiness if we spend it the right ways and especially if we spend it on other people. More money can make you less happy.
“Sleep on it”
Yes, sleeping on it improves decision-making.
Not in movies.
“Home cooking tastes better”
“Smart people lack common sense”
“Stocks are riskier than bonds”
Only works for some people.
“If momma ain’t happy, ain’t nobody happy”
There’s some truth to it.
“Women talk on the phone more than men”
“Attractive women make men stupid”
“Flattery will get you nowhere”
“I need my beauty sleep”
“I don’t like the look of his face”
On second thought, don’t.
“Porn causes rape”
Actually, it reduces it.
“Long distance relationships never work”
They’re more stable.
“We need to get tough on crime”
Harsh prison conditions increase recidivism.
“I’ll sleep when I’m dead”
Cheat yourself on sleep and you’ll suffer the consequences, even if you don’t notice.
“Kids who sit at the front of the class do better”
“Fast talking salesman”
Fast-talkers can be more persuasive.
“Blinded by jealousy”
“Play hard to get”
“Blondes have more fun”
They do make more money.
“Advertising would be better if the models weren’t so thin”
Actually, there’s no way to win here.
“It’s funny because it’s true”
If the truth resonates with the listener, yes.
“All _____ people look alike”
For all of us, whenever people are a different race it’s harder to tell them apart.
“You can tell a lot about a man by his handshake”
Absolutely. “Results showed that HGS was correlated with SHRs, aggressive behaviour, age at first sexual intercourse, and promiscuity in males but not in females. HGS appears to be an honest signal for genetic quality in males.”
“Happy wife, happy life”
When the husband is happier than the wife, couples are more likely to divorce.
“You can tell a lot about the author by what they write”
“Giving is better than receiving”
“My generation didn’t behave like that when we were young”
Wrong. Even grandmom had premarital sex.
“It’s the booze talking”
No, actually, that’s you talking.
“Spanking is bad for kids”
Kids who were spanked behave better as teenagers.
“Having children makes you more like your parents”
“The music you like says a lot about you”
“Men want sex more than women”
“Count your blessings”
Absolutely. It’s one of the most scientifically validated ways to increase happiness.
“When I’m turned on, I’m like a totally different person”
It’s true, and you’ll do things you didn’t think you ever would.
“Cleanliness is next to godliness”
When your desk is messy it’s harder to focus.
“The woman in red”
Women wearing red are seen as more attractive.
“Older and wiser”
Yes, older people are wiser.
“Women find men who are attached more attractive”
“Pricing something at $1.99 instead of $2 doesn’t fool anyone”
Yes, it does.
Our real life partners rarely resemble our ideal partners.
“I love all my kids the same”
No, you don’t.
“The enemy of my enemy is my friend”
“Crazy in love”
There is a connection between love and delusion.
“Life speeds up as you get older”
Yes. Subjectively, once you’re 20, your life is half over. “Basically, if you’re older than about 30, you’re almost dead.”
Your mood is pretty much the same on Friday as Monday.
Those who work the hardest, live the longest.
“A dog is a man’s best friend”
“The love of money is the root of all evil”
Loving money does make people unhappy.
“Power reveals people’s true colours”
“Artists are more likely to be crazy”
More often than not, no, they don’t.
Close. Be your best self.
“The good die young”
No, they live longer.
“You only use 10% of your brain”
False but the idea is so prevalent even 6% of neuroscientists agreed with it.
“Clothes make the man/Dress for success”
“Six degrees of separation”
“We regret most the things we didn’t do”
“Women marry men like their father/Men marry women like their mother”
There’s some truth to it. Looking at photos, research subjects were able to tell (at a rate above chance) who was married to whom by looking for a resemblance between the bride and the groom’s mother, or between the groom and bride’s father. Interestingly, women are more likely to be attracted to men who look like dad – only if they had a good relationship with their father.
It may be a total myth.
“Women are more romantic than men”
False. Studies show that, in general, men are actually more romantic than women. Men also say “I love you” first, have more positive recollections of their first kiss, and are more likely to end a relationship because it lacked “magic.” Saying “I love you” means the most to men and women at different times.
“Stand up straight”
The military makes soldiers stand up straight for a reason; there’s an implicit connection between posture and power that has been demonstrated time and time again. Want to increase confidence? Make yourself tougher? Write a better self-evaluation? Impress others? Stand up straight.
“Don’t give in to peer pressure”
Wrong. More often than not kids are pressured into good things, not bad things. Kids who felt more peer pressure got better grades and had better relationships. Kids who were more independent had lower GPA’s and were more likely to smoke, drink and shoplift.
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