7 ways millennials' lives are no different than their parents' at their age

Scharfsinn/Shutterstock.comIt’s like déjà vu.
  • Millennials are generally defined as people born from 1981 and 1996.
  • While many aspects of life have changed since their parents were young, others have stayed exactly the same.
  • For example, attitudes around gender roles have barely budged and young people are still seeking meaningful work beyond a paycheck.

You could reasonably argue that millennials – the generation born between 1981 and 1996 – have it easier than those before them.

You could also reasonably argue that they have it worse.

It’s not quite as catchy to talk about all the ways that life has, well, stagnated. But in many ways, research suggests, life is largely the same as it was 30 years ago.

Young people are still job-hopping, everyone’s still calling them selfish, and there’s still no magic bullet for finding love. Read on for some of the biggest commonalities between millennials and their parents.


It’s still hard for young people to find love

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Which is harder: Choosing from thousands of Tinder profiles or choosing from a smaller pool of classmates, coworkers, and friends?

Trick question: They can both be pretty awful.

As Mandy Ginsberg, CEO of Match Group North America, previously told Business Insider, no matter what medium you use to meet people, you’re still going to face the same challenges finding a relationship.

That is to say, Baby Boomers and Generation X probably didn’t have an easier or harder time dating than Millennials. People have always been flaky, and clingy, and just plain mean – and they will be for the foreseeable future.


Young people are still job-hopping

Millennials have gotten a rap for treating the job market like a game of leap frog. This is pretty undeserved: Young professionals have always been more inclined to switch jobs than older workers.

As Ben Casselman points out on FiveThirtyEight, job tenure for Americans in their 20s is roughly the same today as it was in the 1980s, according to data from the Bureau of Labour Statistics.

In fact, Casselman notes that millennials are actually changing jobs slightly less often than their predecessors. That suggests they probably aren’t moving around enough, given that changing jobs can be a way to both earn more money and find the best fit.


Many young men still struggle with the concept of gender equality

Young people’s attitudes around gender equality have shifted – but not in the direction you might think.

A 2017 report from the Council on Contemporary Families found that young adults ages 18 to 25 have grown only slightly more supportive of gender equality in the home since the mid-70s and slightly less supportive since the mid-90s.

Consider: In 1977, approximately 45% of men ages 18 to 25 disagreed with the notion that the man should be the breadwinner and the woman should be the homemaker. In 1994, it was 83%. In 2014, only 55% disagreed.

Other reports suggest that millennial men do support gender equality in the home, but they have a hard time putting those beliefs into action. An article in The New York Times reads:

“Millennial men – ages 18 to early 30s – have much more egalitarian attitudes about family, career and gender roles inside marriage than generations before them, according to a variety of research by social scientists. Yet they struggle to achieve their goals once they start families, researchers say.”

That’s possibly because of a relative lack of family-friendly policies in the American workplace.


Levels of racism are still disturbingly high among young white people

In a 2009 paper, University of Michigan political scientist Vincent Hutchings reports that “younger cohorts of Whites are no more racially liberal in 2008 than they were in 1988.”

For example, among white people ages 18 to 29 who participated in American National Election Studies surveys in 1988, just 54% agreed that the government should support fair treatment for black people in the labour market. Among white people who participated in 2008, 57% agreed.

It’s worth noting that, even today, levels of racism don’t differ much between the generations. The Washington Post highlighted relevant data from the General Social Survey, captured between 2010 and 2014. One finding is that 23% of millennials rate blacks less intelligent than whites, compared to 19% of Generation X and 24% of Baby Boomers.


Most young people still aren’t very pious

A report from the Pew Research Center highlights all the ways millennials’ lives have changed – and haven’t – in the last several decades.

One finding is that young people (ages 18 to 29) in 2010 were less likely to be religiously affiliated than young people in generations past.

However, young people in 2010 were just about as likely to say they pray daily (41%) as young people were in the 1980s (47%) and 1990s (42%).


Meaningful work is still a priority for young people

Millennials are hardly the first generation to crave something beyond a paycheck.

As leadership consultant and clinical psychologist Constance Dierickx told Fast Company, “The idea that young adults have an urge to do meaningful work is not new.”

It’s just that it’s hard to follow generations over time.

Dierickx added: “I’m a baby boomer, and if you took a list of words about millennials and showed it to baby boomers and asked, ‘Does this describe you when you were 21?’ we’d say, ‘Yeah!””


Young people are still being labelled selfish, lazy, and entitled

Think millennials are lazy? Welcome to the oldest club in town.

In 2013, The Atlantic published an amusing list of magazine features over time that have called out young people for being selfish and/or narcissistic.

For example, in 1976, New York Magazine published a cover story by Tom Wolfe titled “The ‘Me’ Decade and the Third Great Awakening.”

And in 1980, The Washington Monthly published a story by Greg Easterbrook that read: “It is tempting to see willing disappointment in romance as a symptom of self-obsession: since no lover can rival in grandeur the upper-case Self, what is to be gained from giving one’s affection?”

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