Financial problems are one of the main reasons couples seek marriage counseling, and it’s a leading cause of divorce. In a recent podcast, Suze Orman said there’s one major financial red flag to look out for before marrying someone – a bad credit credit score. Your partner’s bad credit can […]

Kaley Cuoco married Karl Cook in June. She told Women’s Health that she still maintains her independence. She said she’s secure knowing that she is financially stable. Kaley Cuoco is happily married, but that doesn’t mean she can’t be on her own. In an interview with Women’s Health, the 32-year-old […]

Prenups are becoming more common among millennials – should you be signing one too? Prenups are worth considering for various reasons, especially if one partner has more assets than the other, one or both partners have investments, or if you plan to have a family. Signing a prenup requires thought […]

While adults need a constant reminder to drink more and stay hydrated, it’s a different story for newborn babies. Their bodies aren’t developed enough to consume even a few ounces of water, which in extreme cases could be fatal. Following is a transcript of the video. There is a time […]

Although some believe falling in love takes time, others fall in love quickly- and get engaged quickly, too. According to the following tales from Reddit users, sometimes whirlwind engagements can be pretty great and can lead to years of happiness. These individuals who each got engaged after dating for one […]

Billionaires Jeff Bezos and MacKenzie Bezos are filing for divorce. In general, wealthy people are more likely to get and stay married, according to research. The divorce rate in the US declined 18% between 2008 and 2016, and t hat’s likely because couples today are waiting until they’re older and […]

More and more unmarried couples are seeking couples therapy to help deal with problems with their in-laws. Research suggests that women are more likely than men to experience tension with their in-laws. According to relationship coach and consultant Peter Pearson, it’s best to address these problems sooner than later, because […]

A bad piece of relationship advice is that you’re supposed to make your spouse happy, experts say. Instead, you should be a complete person – happy and healthy – on your own. Regardless of whether you’re currently in a relationship, it’s important to work on your self-development. I recently asked […]

A divorce is likely when one or both partners in a marriage feels hopeless. That’s according to both couples therapists and scientific research. People who feel hopeless about their relationship have come to terms with the fact that nothing can be done to save it. “When you’re in a healthy […]

The biggest sign you need to be in couples therapy, says marriage and family therapist Rachel Zamore, is that you and your partner are caught in a “pursue-withdraw” cycle. It’s the most common pattern Zamore sees. One partner is actively pushing for closeness and the other is pulling away, and […]

Some US presidents and first ladies can boast of pretty swoon-worthy love stories. Grace and Calvin Coolidge met after she spied him shaving through a window; Theodore and Edith Roosevelt were childhood friends whose relationship blossomed into something more. Here’s a look at some of the most romantic presidential love […]

Valentine’s Day is always a great time to appreciate your partner and reflect on your relationship. Before getting too serious, there are certain facts you should definitely know about them, such as how much debt they have and how they feel about divorce. We checked out a Reddit thread on […]

Rich American couples who have about $US5 million are more likely to have an amicable divorce, says one divorce lawyer. That’s in contrast to upper middle class couples worth between $US1 million and $US5 million, who tend to fight more under the strain of socioeconomic pressures. This insight comes from […]

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Marriage typically gets harder after you have kids. But it’s important to prioritise your spouse and your relationship even after you become a parent. Two marriage therapists share their top tips for doing just that. This post is part ofRelationships 101, a series which aims to help us all be […]

Do babies born between two cousins actually have a higher chance of having birth defects? Understanding basic genetic principles will help with this question. Following is a transcript of the video. What did Queen Victoria, Charles Darwin, and Albert Einstein have in common? They all married their first cousins. You’d […]

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A relationship won’t always be passionate and spontaneous, therapists say. It’s normal to sometimes feel bored in your marriage. But there are ways to spice things up, like planning to do something “illicit” with your partner. This post is part of Relationships 101, a series which aims to help us […]

Last year, a dying woman wrote a column titled “You may want to marry my husband,” which was read by more than 5 million people worldwide. Jason Rosenthal, the subject of that column, discussed what the last year has been like without his wife in a recent TED talk. Rosenthal […]

Women breadwinners appear to make both men and women uncomfortable, according to Claire Cain Miller in the New York Times. Miller cited findings from a new Census Bureau paper – husbands and wives are lying about who makes more money when the woman is the primary breadwinner in an opposite-sex […]

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Ashley Madison is a website for married people seeking affairs. Sex therapist Tammy Nelson is its resident relationship expert. Nelson said many people wind up cheating on their partners because they lack passion in their marriage. That’s why Nelson recommends having an “affair” with your spouse, meaning you put in […]

Money is one of the biggest sources of tension between couples, according to research. Differences in earning can cause tension with your partner. I earn significantly more money than my partner, and here’s how it affects our relationship. When my partner and I first got together nearly a decade ago, […]

Ashley Madison is a website for married people seeking affairs. Their resident relationship expert is sex therapist Tammy Nelson. Nelson said there are, generally speaking, two types of affairs: those in which people want to leave their primary relationship and those in which they don’t. Other experts say people in […]

In a relationship, some conflict is inevitable. But relationship experts say it’s all about how you manage it. Their top strategies include listening and reflecting back, displaying some vulnerability, and working on your communication skills. This post is part of Relationships 101, a series which aims to help us all […]

Success at work can sometimes come at the expense of relationship stability. That’s because the qualities that make someone good at their job can also make them a less-than-ideal partner. This phenomenon is especially common among entrepreneurs, who tend to seek novelty and resist routine. Still, some experts say that, […]

Marriage and relationships can be challenging. New York City-based marriage counselor Rachel Sussman shared three compelling insights related to sex and relationships, including the idea that “opposites attract” isn’t always true. This post is part of Relationships 101, a series which aims to help us all be happier and healthier […]

Every summer, thousands and thousands of couples tie the knot. That decision has lasting effects on their health over time. Researchers have identified a variety of trends that show how getting married changes people. There has historically been an idea that marriage is good for your physical and mental health, […]

Japan has begun offering classes and celebrating holidays that encourage men to appreciate their wives. Right now Japan is in the midst of a fertility crisis, which could be partly related to the lack of steady jobs for men and partly related to the all-consuming nature of work. The creator […]

Relationship expert Andrea Syrtash shared some of the top signs that you and your partner could be ready for marriage. Those signs include having shared values and goals and having open conversations about sex. Ultimately, you and your partner are the only people who can decide whether you’re ready to […]

By the time they turn 35, many Americans have gotten married, bought a home, and earned a salary of about $US50,000. They have also amassed quite a bit of debt by that age, according to the data. See how you compare to the average 35-year-old American in seven aspects of […]

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle were married on Saturday May 19 in a royal wedding for the ages. It was a joyous but understandably nervewracking occasion for the pair as an estimated 1.9 billion people tuned in to watch. As Meghan Markle joined Prince Harry at the altar, Twitter users […]

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle wed on Saturday. That means Markle has left behind both her acting career and her political pursuits. Successful people say your choice of spouse is the most important career decision you can make – and it seems like Prince Harry and Markle have spent time […]

Meghan Markle’s relationship with Prince Harry looks a lot different than Kate Middleton’s relationship with Prince William. For example, Middleton and Prince William knew each other for longer before getting engaged. And their wedding was much more traditional than Markle and Prince William’s will be. We asked relationship experts to […]

Marriage is an exciting, romantic concept, but it’s also a decision that will change the rest of your life. However, with some introspection, you can better determine whether or nor you are ready for marriage with your significant other. Here are five signs, from expert, that you shouldn’t get married […]

The best point in a married relationship could be once you reach 20 years together. That’s according to a new study, which showed how time together is difficult up until that point, then improves afterwards. Don’t expect it to be easy, as many couples experience difficulties along the way. It’s […]

A wedding budget is essential when planning for your big day. On average, Americans spend $US33,391 on their weddings, with the venue and engagement ring being the most expensive. Seemingly small details can drive up a wedding budget, including the floral arrangements, transportation, and party favours. Deciding how to break […]

Dustin Johnson and his fiance Paulina Gretzky met through Gretzky’s parents in 2009. The golf star and the pop singer-turned-model didn’t go on their first date, however, until 2012. They have been together ever since, and now have two children. Dustin Johnson wooed the entire Gretzky clan long before he […]

Marriage is always hard, and it’s tempting to ignore problems in your relationship and hope that they will go away. But some problems could spell trouble down the road – and will only get worse the longer you put off addressing them. Those problems include experiencing a lot of dramatic […]

The Philippines’ legislature has taken major steps towards legalizing divorce in the highly Catholic country. The bill would need to be supported by President Rodrigo Duterte, who has stated that he is strongly against divorce. But while the president has taken a hardline view on ending marriages, he has surprisingly […]

It’s easy to believe that your relationship is different from everyone else’s. It’s probably not. Relationships take effort to maintain, and you won’t always be happy with your partner. Even if you love each other, if you have fundamentally different values, a breakup may be the best option. Everyone knows […]

No one can say with 100% certainty that a couple is heading for disaster. But social scientists have gotten pretty good at predicting who’s most likely to wind up there. These couples share certain commonalities – in the way they fight and the way they describe their relationship, but also […]

There are multiple warning signs that you or your partner are more at risk of getting divorced. Education, employment status, and family history of divorce can all impact your likelihood of getting divorced. Pop culture also deals with divorce and how trying it can be – Netflix’s “Marriage Story” for […]

Credit score website ClearScore has worked out the most expensive age on average is 31. This is when you’re likely to be getting married, having children, or saving for a house. To afford everything, the typical 31-year-old needs to save £43,000. Plenty of young people can relate to dealing with […]

Whether you’re already married, planning a wedding, or have simply attended too many to count, you’ll know that a wedding day comes with a mix of emotions, from stress to sadness to utter joy. Weddings also differ depending on where in the world they’re taking place. In order to “promote […]

Two exes who own a bakery together were interviewed by The New York Times about their divorce. The ex-husband said the “extreme” demands of running a bakery may have contributed to their split. Research suggests outside stress – including work stress – can negatively affect a relationship. Being stressed out […]

Couples that communicate better stay together. But many people start conversations harshly without even realising it. A new relationship health app called Lasting aims to help couples have healthier, happier relationships. The founder, Steven Dziedzic, told Business Insider some of the traps couples can easily fall into. Communication in any […]

The “love lab” in downtown Seattle allows couples to have their relationship analysed, through observation and physiological measurements. The day-long experience costs $US4,500. Couples receive a personalised report and find out how they can improve the quality of their relationship. John Gottman has become famous as the man who can […]

Power couples don’t come much stronger than Bill and Melinda Gates. They jointly run their charitable foundation that has an endowment of $US40.3 billion while also raising three kids. By their own admission it’s an ‘intense’ setup, but it ‘works well.’ The pair opened up further about how they make […]

Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore divorced in 2013. After the divorce, Kutcher went alone into the mountains and fasted for a week. That might not be the best strategy to get over a breakup because it gives you lots of time to brood, and not many distractions. Right after his […]

Studies suggest that spending time with your partner and another couple is an easy way to improve your relationship. Couples tend to enjoy the time they spend together with friends even more than they enjoy spending time alone together. That’s possibly because you can see those friends admiring your partner […]

The Census Bureau tracks patterns in marital status by age among Americans. In recent years, older Americans are more likely to have been divorced, separated, or in a second or later marriage than in previous decades, while younger Americans are more likely to be never married or in a first […]

Jennifer Aniston and Justin Theroux confirmed they have separated in an official statement. An anonymous source reportedly told ET that the couple’s disagreements about where to live was a major part in their decision to break up. Psychologists and relationship experts say that discussions around long-term goals, along with where […]

Millennials are cohabiting before marriage and getting married later in life. This means they often don’t need traditional wedding gifts such as kitchen appliances because they already own them. As a result, wedding cash registries and donations towards experiences have become more common. Analysts say this could cause issues for […]

In their most recent annual letter for their charitable foundation, Bill and Melinda Gates answered some questions they get often. Melinda answered the question “What happens when the two of you disagree?” by saying she and her husband agreed on basic values. Relationship experts (and long-married people) agree that sharing […]

“How to be Married” by Jo Piazza includes a section on marriage in France. Piazza writes that French people see flirting outside their marriage – even in front of their spouse – as healthy. But not everyone is comfortable with this idea. While researching her book “How to Be Married,” […]

People have tended to get married at later ages in recent years. In 1962, 90% of 30-year-olds had been married at least once. By 2017, only 53.6% of 30-year-olds had been married. It’s was just Valentine’s Day, and couples are celebrating their love for each other. Many of those couples, […]

Marriage is complicated. That’s a given. When I was getting married I was so stressed about balancing my new family, new responsibilities and new life, I was one seating chart switch away from eloping. But somewhere between tears, nerves and mini meltdowns, I found beauty in my relationship that couldn’t […]

Romantic relationships tend to involve a lot of guesswork and spontaneity. To be more intentional about goals and plans, a New York Times writer and her partner sign a “relationship contract” every year. Psychologists and relationship experts say the method might not work for everyone, however, and could have some […]

Disagreements are an important part of any relationship. If you want to keep your arguments productive and avoid causing undue harm, two leading psychologists say there are a couple of basic rules you should follow. Decades of research suggest that these guidelines can help build and strengthen a relationship instead […]

Couples therapist Lori Gottlieb is quoted in “How to Be Married” saying that you shouldn’t expect to split household tasks 50/50 with your partner. Gottlieb suggests that the division of labour should be more organic, so that each person feels fulfilled. That may be harder than it seems. Even today, […]

Louise Linton is an actress and a model who is married to US Treasury Secretary Steve Mnuchin. Linton told Elle magazine that she and Mnuchin are complete opposites and that they balance each other out. Relationship experts say partners with different personalities may wind up clashing, and that it’s important […]

With Valentine’s Day ahead, we took a look at the average engagement ring price by state, which ranges from $US3,005 to $US10,109, according to diamond retailer Ritani. People in Washington spend the most on engagement rings, while those in South Dakota spend the least. Visit Business Insider’s homepage for more […]

• US Education Secretary Betsy DeVos married Amway heir Dick DeVos in 1979. • Both hailed from wealthy, powerful Michigan families, and shared similar conservative Christian values. The couple went on to become massively influential in Michigan state politics. • Forbes reported the net worth of the family – including […]

Amazon got its start as a book seller, but founder Jeff Bezos knew early on that he wanted it to be “an everything store.” These days, it seems like he’s accomplishing just that. Starting Thursday, you can start using your Amazon Echo to help with wedding planning. Thanks to a […]

A recent study found evidence that a single factor mattered more for a couple’s relationship satisfaction than a handful of other considerations, including marriage. That factor was whether couples saw their significant other as their best friend. “Maybe what is really important [in a relationship] is friendship, and to never […]

Rachel Sussman is a relationship expert and marriage counselor. She’s seen many couples fighting while renovating their home. It even happened to her. Like having children, the home-renovation process may bring to the surface relationship issues that you’ve pushed under the rug. Nearly 30 years ago, Rachel Sussman and her […]

Gisele Bundchen is a supermodel married to Tom Brady, the quarterback for the New England Patriots. Bundchen displayed a positive, supportive attitude after the Patriots lost the Super Bowl on Sunday. Experts have said that supporting your partner during setbacks can be crucial for a strong relationship. Your spouse’s attitude […]

Prenups are shedding their stigma and becoming increasingly popular among Americans, especially millennials. Prenups set expectations for a division of assets and finances in the event of divorce. They may not be romantic to bring up, but most couples will benefit from having one. Two main factors are driving an […]

21st century relationships are a minefield. While you’re already worrying about building a successful and genuine connection with someone you care about, you also have to manoeuvre past modern – and often cruel – dating trends such as ghosting and benching. But not every relationship is destined to fail. In […]

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Michael McNulty, PhD, studied why marriages fail and found that when one or both partners have checked out of a relationship, it could mean a breakup is near. That stage is typically preceded by negativity, contempt, and emotional overwhelm. You have the best chance of saving your relationship if you […]

January is typically the month when divorce filings begin to spike in America. 2018 may be an especially popular year for divorce because of impending changes to US tax policy. We spoke to a divorce lawyer and a psychotherapist about the top signs that a marriage is heading for disaster. […]

I recently spoke to several married couples in which both partners are relationship experts. I asked how they managed conflict. Everyone said they tried to stay curious about their partner, instead of getting angry or defensive. Curiosity is a notoriously hard skill to develop, but it pays off. I recently […]

• Mark and Tiffany Cuban may be worth billions, but their relationship is low-key and, for the most part, out of the spotlight. • The “Shark Tank” star and the former advertising executive first met at the gym in 1997. • Their own words help to paint a picture of […]

Paris Hilton has said she never fights with new fiancé Chris Zylka. Some experts say you can have conflict without fighting, while others say fighting before marriage can be productive. Ultimately, don’t compare your relationship to the way someone else’s relationship looks from the outside. I recently profiled Paris Hilton’s […]

• Mark Cuban met his wife, advertising executive Tiffany, at the gym in 1997. • Earlier in their relationship, Tiffany had trouble adjusting to the billionaire’s lifestyle and the couple experienced “scheduling problems.” • They were wed in an intimate 2002 ceremony in Barbados, and now have three children. “Shark […]

Rachel Sussman is a relationship expert and marriage counselor in New York City. She says many couples she sees are worried about the decline – or disappearance – of passion in their relationship. Sussman says it takes effort and creativity to rekindle that passion. Research-backed strategies include trying something new […]

LeBron James and his wife Savannah met in high school and have been together ever since. They became engaged at a star-studded New Year’s Eve bash in 2011, and tied the knot in 2013. The couple has three children, and James is the one of the highest-paid athletes in the […]

The most common problem couples face in bed is mismatched sex drives. That’s according to Rachel Sussman, a marriage counselor in New York City. Sussman said it’s best to find someone whose sex drive more or less matches yours, but if the difference has evolved over time, there are some […]

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Young couples are increasingly fighting about social media use. Sometimes one partner is more private than the other, or sometimes one partner is concerned that their partner is following an ex on social media. Yet research also suggests that social media can help bring couples together. In the days when […]

• Many of the most successful people out there also have incredibly successful marriages. • While you can’t read into a marriage from a wedding, it’s fun to take a look back at the days that marked the begin of married life. • Some couples, like Tom Brady and Gisele […]

The most common fights couples have focus on issues such as finances, sex, and parenting. That’s according to Rachel Sussman, a relationship expert and marriage counselor in New York City. Sussman said all these conflicts come down to communication skills – or a lack thereof. Visit Business Insider’s homepage for […]

These days, many couples live together, sleep together, and spend a lot of time getting to know each other before their wedding day. And still, getting married is more than just a symbolic step – it can change a lot. To learn more about those potential changes, we checked out […]

Generally speaking, you and your partner should know each other well before things get serious. But there are certain areas of your life where it’s ok to keep some secrets. Those areas include daily spending habits and any lingering feelings for your ex. You and your partner should know a […]

Numerous scientific papers explore the reasons people say they got divorced. We took a look at some of those papers and pulled out recurring themes. Seven common reasons are listed below. They include infidelity, growing apart, and getting married too young. When it comes to studying divorce, social scientists have […]

Google just released its top searches of 2017. 10 trending relationship-related queries are listed below. Those topics include managing long-distance relationships, understanding polyamorous relationships, and getting out of a toxic relationship. Google just released its top searches of 2017 – i.e. the searches that had the largest spike compared to […]

• Many of the wealthiest people on earth are married to people who are very successful in their own right. • The world’s top billionaires are married to an award-winning novelist, a pediatrician, and a powerful philanthropist, among others. • Uber-wealthy billionaires meet their spouses the same way anyone else […]

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Marriage can be hard, but couples therapists have tips to make it easier. Peter Pearson, PhD, and Ellyn Bader, PhD, run The Couples Institute in California. They have been married to each other for decades. I spoke to Pearson and Bader and learned some of the best strategies they use, […]

Marriage can be hard for any couple, even if it starts out smoothly. Psychologist Eli Finkel says there are three main strategies to improve a rocky relationship: working on it as much as possible, using “love hacks,” and asking less of the marriage. Your choice of which strategy to use […]

Marriage can be challenging, and couples can fall into destructive cycles. To help break those cycles, couples therapist Peter Pearson often prescribes the “Daily Double” exercise: Each partner must display only positive behaviours toward each other for two weeks straight. Pearson has found that it’s much harder – and more […]

A marriage between two people with meaningful careers can be a struggle. The most successful dual-career couples act as each other’s “secure base.” That means they push each other to explore and grow professionally. It’s important to talk at least twice a year about what you’re aiming for individually and […]

A marriage on the brink of divorce can potentially benefit from discernment counseling. In one to five sessions, a discernment counselor helps the couple decide whether to stay married as they are, start the divorce process, or seek couples therapy. The process is focused on understanding how the marriage got […]

Relationships are complicated, and they take a lot of work to keep healthy. Here are some easy strategies for strengthening your relationship on a daily basis, from saying “thanks” to putting a ban on talking about housework. Visit Business Insider’s homepage for more stories. Relationships take work. A lot of […]

Royals around the world have fallen in love with commoners. Mary Elizabeth Donaldson, who’s now the crown princess of Denmark, met her prince at a bar. Meghan Markle is a real-life American fairytale. Former Japanese Emperor Akihito was the first emperor to marry a non-royal. Visit INSIDER’s homepage for more […]

• Beyoncé and Jay Z are music industry titans who’ve been married since 2008. • The couple’s net worth is estimated to be about $US1.16 billion. • The pair now have three children: Blue Ivy, and twins Rumi and Sir. Beyoncé and Jay-Z have united to collaborate on DJ Khaled’s […]

• Business Insider looked into how some of the most successful people out there met their spouses and partners. • Several couples, like Jeff and MacKenzie Bezos and Bill and Melinda Gates, met at work. • Others met at recreational events, like a charity poker tournament or a high school […]

• Spanx founder Sara Blakely and Marquis Jets founder Jesse Itzler first met at a charity poker tournament in 2006. • Itzler set up an elaborate scavenger hunt when it came time to propose to his now-wife. • Today, they have four children and chronicle their family’s adventures on social […]