Valentine’s Day is a day to celebrate how committed you are to your partner. Unfortunately, if your partner is young, easily distracted, or even adequately sexually satisfied, they could be more likely to cheat on you. New research from Florida State University has highlighted some of the main predictors that […]

• Valentine’s Day is the time of year to show your love by dropping money on flowers and chocolates – or grouse about how cheesy and consumerist the holiday is. • Valentine’s Day’s religious origins have taken a backseat. • There were multiple St. Valentines throughout history, and the feast […]

With Valentine’s Day ahead, we took a look at the average engagement ring price by state, which ranges from $US3,005 to $US10,109, according to diamond retailer Ritani. People in Washington spend the most on engagement rings, while those in South Dakota spend the least. Visit Business Insider’s homepage for more […]

Narcissists struggle with having positive feelings about someone while they are mad at them. This means they get incredibly fierce and cruel during arguments. For many people, the best thing to do is to leave a narcissist and cut them out of their life. If this isn’t possible there are […]

If you’re looking for love this Valentine’s Day, there are certain factors that can increase your chances of finding it. According to various psychological studies, some of those factors include playing hard to get, owning a dog, and even caring about the environment. Visit Business Insider’s homepage for more stories. […]

A recent study found evidence that a single factor mattered more for a couple’s relationship satisfaction than a handful of other considerations, including marriage. That factor was whether couples saw their significant other as their best friend. “Maybe what is really important [in a relationship] is friendship, and to never […]

Pet names are more or less unavoidable. Even if you have an agreement in your relationship to avoid calling each other “honey” or “baby,” it’s likely one of you will fall into the trap at some point. Research has shown that using cutesy terms could be a result of your […]

Most people find it rude if you use your phone during a date, according to the annual Singles in America Study by dating site Match. 5,000 singles answered questions about their dating lives. The results showed that people can be very judgmental, but they wouldn’t turn down the opportunity to […]

If you already have a partner, congratulations, you’ve beaten the system. For the rest of us, modern dating is a minefield. There are so many rules and games to play it’s easy to lose track. You might be “left on read” by someone you really liked, and your mind may […]

Manipulative people sometimes hook in their victims by “love bombing” them. This can mean compliments, public displays of affection, and gifts. If you fall for the trap, you might find yourself in a serious relationship quicker than you anticipated, with no way out. With Valentine’s Day approaching, make sure you […]

Feeling familiar with someone might not always be a good thing. Sometimes, we might be psychologically trying to resolve issues from our past with new people. In these cases, we may subconsciously seek out abusive people. Being comfortable with someone is different – you are able to be yourself without […]

Dating site Match surveyed 5,000 singles in the US to find out what’s important for a good date and a fulfilling sex life. The results showed women still like compliments, and their sexual peak is a fair bit older than you might expect. First dates make everyone nervous. If you’re […]

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New research suggests women are more inclined to think a man is attractive if other women have rated him highly. This is likely down to our tendency to copy each other. It doesn’t mean women are likely to pursue married men – if they do, this could be a sign […]

It hurts when someone doesn’t text you back. Rather than understanding that sometimes people are simply busy, our minds can jump to conclusions. This is actually pretty harmful, both to your mental state and your potential relationship. One reason we do this is because we tend to psychologically invest so […]

Asking someone why they are still single is a popular first date question. But it actually comes with a lot of negative implications. Dating expert Erika Ettin says it suggests there is something wrong with being single, and you should avoid talking about exes at all when you first meet […]

Any new relationship is full of challenges. You’re getting to know someone, and there’s no telling when something might happen to burst the bubble of your new romance. In general, it’s fun learning all there is to know about someone who used to be a stranger. But sometimes, there will […]

“Ghosting” is disappearing without a trace from someone you were dating. It’s normally thought of as the cowardly thing to do, but one Reddit user has changed the game. She told the subreddit r/Confession about how she ghosted her boyfriend of five years, and everyone is on board with it. […]

Empaths and narcissists are often drawn to each other. This is because empaths have a lot of compassion and understanding to give, while narcissists thrive on someone worshipping them. But this isn’t a good match, because empaths tend to forgive everything the narcissist does. This results in them being completely […]

21st century relationships are a minefield. While you’re already worrying about building a successful and genuine connection with someone you care about, you also have to manoeuvre past modern – and often cruel – dating trends such as ghosting and benching. But not every relationship is destined to fail. In […]

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People who are very receptive to the emotions of others are known as empaths. They are also very sensitive to noise, smell, and being around people. This means they are overwhelmed in crowds, and get exhausted in social situations. Psychiatrist Judith Orloff, an empath herself, works with others to help […]

The dating app Hinge has a ton of data about its most eligible bachelors and bachelorettes living across the US. The company chose 10 people from 10 major cities across the United States to make its list of 100 most eligible singles in 2018. It’s almost the end of 2018 […]

Sometimes it can be tricky to work out everything about someone on a first date. According to a marriage counsellor, how they answer one simple question can tell you whether you should stick around or not. First impressions are very important. That’s why a first date with someone is so […]

As Netflix has ramped up its original show production, it has also had to do some high-profile cancelling, even cutting some fan favourites. Most recently, Netflix announced that it would cancel comedian Maria Bamford’s “Lady Dynamite” after two seasons. The show was well-received by critics, though was less of a […]

Being in a relationship with a narcissist is hard work. They are very insecure and sensitive people, which means they can take offence very easily. This can end up in couples having the same arguments over and over again. Sometimes they are unaware of being abusive to their partners, but […]

Breaking up with someone is painful. According to scientific research, this is because the same areas in the brain are activated when we feel heartbreak and when we feel physical pain. Other studies have also shown that love is like an addiction, and losing it can be like going through […]

Over a third of people admit to making New Year’s resolutions for their partner. These include eating healthier, losing weight, and exercising. According to a study from Bupa, the average person worries about their partner’s health twice a week. Two thirds of the nation even admit they put their loved […]

A new study suggests a man’s scent might lead women to drink more. Women who smelt male pheromones were more likely to drink more than women who sniffed water. The researchers conclude it could be because of the cultural link between drinking and sexual activity. Dating is nerve-wracking, so it’s […]

When you’re getting to know someone, it is hard to tell what they will end up like. High conflict people take advantage of this and trick you into thinking they are perfect for you. But when they know you are committed they turn into their true selves. There are three […]

New research has shown that psychopaths are more likely to stay friends with their exes. It’s because they feel they can still get something out of the connection, even after the actual relationship has ended. You can be friends with exes without them being psychopaths, but it is worth thinking […]

These days, many couples live together, sleep together, and spend a lot of time getting to know each other before their wedding day. And still, getting married is more than just a symbolic step – it can change a lot. To learn more about those potential changes, we checked out […]

Generally speaking, you and your partner should know each other well before things get serious. But there are certain areas of your life where it’s ok to keep some secrets. Those areas include daily spending habits and any lingering feelings for your ex. You and your partner should know a […]

Netflix has done some house cleaning in 2017, cutting expensive shows like “The Get Down,” and old favourites like “House of Cards.” It’s also killed flops like “Girlboss” and “Gypsy” after only one season. Most recently, Netflix announced that the third season of the comedy series “Love” – starring Gillian […]

It’s pretty normal to feel nervous before a first date. But if that feeling continues beyond a few weeks, it could be a sign of a different problem. Rather than trying to make it work with someone you just don’t feel comfortable around, it’s better to end things and find […]

• Dating in the office can be tricky business. • Specific rules surrounding merging your love life and your work life vary depending on your role and your organisation’s work culture. • Either way, you want to be especially careful about what you say at work for the sake of […]

Google just released its top searches of 2017. 10 trending relationship-related queries are listed below. Those topics include managing long-distance relationships, understanding polyamorous relationships, and getting out of a toxic relationship. Google just released its top searches of 2017 – i.e. the searches that had the largest spike compared to […]

We’re in “cuffing season,” where people put in extra effort to find someone to cuddle during the winter. According to a new poll, single men are more worried about finding a partner than women. This could be because men don’t necessarily share the same level of emotional connection with their […]

If you use pet names, it might be because your mother used them with you. Research shows that using cute nicknames is a sign your relationship is strong. There are hundreds of variations from around the world, so you could try out a new one on your partner for Valentine’s […]

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The only way to fully get over a breakup is to wait it out. But there are plenty of strategies to help reduce your emotional distress and become a functioning human being again. Those strategies include resisting the urge to Facebook-stalk and finding a silver lining in the experience. The […]

There are many misconceptions about why women choose to cheat on their partners. New research shows women can have a very pragmatic approach to sexual infidelity, and often their husbands never find out. Here are five myths about cheating that we often assume to be true. There are many clichés […]

Worrying too much about breaking up with your partner could mean you make your fears a reality. According to new research, fretting about a relationship ending could make you less committed to it. Breakups inevitably happen. No matter how much time and effort we invest in a relationship, there’s no […]

Love at first sight might not be a real thing, according to new research. It could simply be instant physical attraction, or a result of attaching present feelings to past memories. No study covers all situations though, so don’t give up hope just yet. Everyone is in the mood for […]

Polyamory is when couples allow each other to have multiple romantic partners outside their primary relationship. There are several different approaches, such as triads which consist of three people. Sometimes couples try out polyamory naively, especially when a straight couple wants to find another bisexual woman to join them. This […]

Most of us will have experienced jealousy in our romantic relationships at some time or another. People with multiple partners are called “polyamorous.” They purposefully introduce more people into their romantic lives, which could be tricky to do if you’re a jealous person. However, according to research, many polyamorous people […]

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