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My job is important to me, but my wife always changes the subject when I talk about it. Can I get her to care?


My fiancé said he has no interest in wedding planning, but he's obsessed with the budget. How can I get him more interested since money influences every decision I'll have to make?


I know I'll see my ex at our friend's birthday. Is it bad that I kind of want to hook up with him?



I found out my girlfriend of 7 years cheated on me twice. I want to forgive and trust her again, but is that even possible?


My ex and I have the same friend group and I've been skipping gatherings to prevent any drama. How can I make things less awkward so I don't have to miss out on all of the fun?


I've been with my spouse for 5 years, but I'm interested in an open marriage. How do I tell my partner, who also has zero experience with polyamory?



My partner was recently diagnosed with bipolar disorder. How can I be supportive of them without getting sucked into their lows?


My in-laws drive me up a wall, but my partner loves spending time with them. How can I make the experience bearable?